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Five steps, one page of refusals, about twenty minutes.

One thing: let the no's be ugly.

Don't be reasonable

A polite no is a useless no. Write the ones you'd be embarrassed to say at dinner.

Quantity first

Get everything down before you start flipping any of it. The sorting comes later.

Keep the page

Read it again in a month. What you refuse changes slowly - which is exactly why it's reliable.

You don't have to know what you want. You only have to know what you're done with.

- Ros